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If I were to create a poll and offer it to the general public asking, “What is the number one thing needed for successful intimacy in a relationship?”, - What do you think the answer would be? I think the top answer would be “ communication”. And I’d say that’s a really great answer because communication is a huge factor in cultivating a vibrant and healthy relationship. It’s not easy for some people to talk about things that create deep intimacy . It makes them feel vulner

I watched a documentary this week, reminding me of my favorite hero of faith, Corrie Ten Boom . Well, Corrie wasn’t even married so why do I write about her in my marriage intimacy blog? Because this woman was full of God’s wisdom . She went through unspeakable things and because of that, she has a perspective about life that we all need to hold onto. After her release from consentration camp, Corrie traveled across the world speaking on the love of Jesus, salvation , and f

My mirror can somedays be my best friend… those days where my hair is on point, my body seems radiant and I had a good workout. My makeup glistens like sunbeams and I strut out that door with confidence. Other days, that mirror betrays me and becomes my worst enemy. I look like a bloated marshmallow, my wrinkles seem to be glaring at me from under a magnifying glass, and my hair is a frazzled dazzled mess. Then, walking out that bathroom door, I just feel crummy. I kinda wish

There is absolutely no part of my finite brain that can understand the complexity of physics when I start thinking about exactly how a three stranded cord is exponentially stronger than only two strands. Nor, how braiding these three cords would affect the overall strength of them together. And thanks to the help from AI Overview, I learned that a braided cord of three strands is not simply three times as strong as a single strand; it is potentially up to 50% stronger than a

The name for my coaching business came from the verse in the Bible from John 15:4, "Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in Me." Our goal is to bear much fruit in our marriages and in the world, but we can't do that unless we are truly abiding in Christ. My mission is to help couples abide in Him first so that they can work together to bear much fruit, in their relationship with o